Any Office fans here?!?! *waving hands* I think everyone who is planning a wedding should take a look at Jim & Pams wedding episodes.  (Part 1 and Part 2)

If you’ve never seen The Office, all you really need to know about their wedding episode(s) is that all they were trying to do, was plan a simple wedding…. but it kept getting ruined by their weird, wacky and hilarious office workers. They have just about the most inappropriate co-workers ever! Including Steve Carell as their insanely attention loving, immature and very loud boss!! (They actually planned to have a destination wedding hoping people wouldn’t come, but of course they ALL show up!)

The “Cut the tie Mentality” is what I think everyone should have. Which is that, things will definitely go wrong, and if it does — who the eff cares?!  This particular scene is when Pam Beesely (the bride) is fretting over the fact that she’s already torn her veil. The groom, Jim, tries to soothe her by deliberately cutting his tie in half, to “match” her.  He says to her “who cares? it’s just a veil.” She is first astonished, then touched that he would do that for her…. and “takes a picture” to capture their moments in their head.

I highly recommend using this mentality for your wedding day. Laugh about the silly imperfections and just have FUN with your new spouse!

If you are not in love with “Jim Halpert” by now… OH, YOU WILL BE!! (After watching a few episodes of The Office of course!) He’s everything a girl could want! Such a cutie! I’m all giggly now!

Whenever you start feeling the pressures and stresses of planning… just remember… were the best weddings you went to always have a bride running around worrying and yelling at the waiters to set the table straight? Or fussing over a stain? No… the best weddings are when the bride & groom aren’t even aware of all those things, but are just engaged in having fun together. That is all it takes, people. Just have a good time, and let the rest of the wedding take care of itself.  It won’t be perfect, but does it matter?

XOXO,

C